In Africa , sex is a taboo topic in most homes. Even though that is gradually changing, it’s quite unusual to see sex being discussed openly homes.
Our women are brought up with the understanding that a lady who shows open likeness for s_ex is considered loose, therefore they are always inhibited when it comes to s_ex. They also believe that being open about sex gives men the impression that they are bad girls.
News flash ladies, men like sex but love it more when their women participate fully in the act or do things to spice it up. We want a lion in bed, not a kitten.
Below is how African men want their women to be in bed:
1. Initiate Sexual intercourse
It’s good you’re always receptive when we initiate sex but there are times we also want you to initiate sex. It shows that you want us as much as we want you. Send us sexy messages to indicate how much you can’t wait to have us at home and what special treat you have in store for us.
When in bed, make your move and touch him. Whilst walking around the house be bold and show him how much you yearn for him. African men love bold women.
2. Take Control
We don’t want you to do and follow our lead throughout the act. Be bold and take control of things. Control the depth, pace, position etc. Why not hold him, turn him onto the bed and give him a mind blowing ride to heaven.
We do things we feel make you excited but we also know we don’t nail it sometimes so it’ll be great if you can guide your man to your erroneous zones so both of you can pleasure each other.
3. Be Responsive
Ever heard of “don’t lie there like a log”?? It doesn’t make things exciting when you just lie there for us to do all the work. Reciprocal movement, touches, kisses etc all add up to the fun and gives us the energy to do a good job.
We’re doing the deed and I hit a great spot that sends pleasure buds running through your body. Why not say it? We love to hear how well we are performing. Tell us how our hands feel on your body, tell of how we are making you feel, let us know if a particular thing makes you excited.
We need some adventure. Be ready to try new positions, new locations etc. Making love the same way at the same place can be kinda boring and so we need a way to spice it.
Try it in the couch, on the kitchen cabinet, in the bathroom, outside when nobody is watching. Just be willing to try out new ideas.
6. Talk Dirty
We are not saying be like a porn star but at least make audible noises that’ll make us know if we are doing things right. Tell us how hard you want it, how badly you want it. At that moment, drop all inhibitions and be vocal.